Monday, September 20, 2010

Women want Oral - men should demand it too

How many women have you slept with who were only able to orgasm with the aid of oral stimulation to their clitoris. These dysfunctional women are everywhere. So, they want us to go down on them and lick them until they come - but then they don't want to reciprocate.

It is time to get tough men - demand a 69 and demand she hang in there until you are finished as well. I don't go rushing off to the bathroom to spit after she comes - why should she? Our juices are sacred and not to be wasted.

The Truth about Apprehended Domestic/Family Violence Orders

Inevitably the first shot in a separation is the Violence Order, known in NSW as an Apprehended Domestic Violence Order (ADVO) and in Western Australia as a Family Violence Order. My experience is with the former. An ADVO is between people who know each other, whereas an Apprehended Violence Order (AVO) is between people who are not in a relationship.

Some statistics:
- 70% of separations are initiated by the woman
- ADVOs give the woman power and control
- ADVOs are easy for women to get and virtually impossible for men to get. A solicitor I know who regularly attends ADVO hearings (which tend to be on one day of the week in Court) calls the day 'Ladie's Day'.

The presence of an ADVO gives the woman huge leverage in the family law court. In Australia, if you fail to have the ADVO withdrawn then the presumption of equal shared parental responsibility is nullified. The ADVO gives the woman time to relocate or change her situation whilst the man spins worrying about trying to see his kids - meanwhile Status Quo is building, creating a situation where the court will not force the return of the children back to near the father as in the court's view it 'would not be in the best interests of the children to upset their current stability'.

ADVOs can be created in two ways. The first is for the alleged victim of the violence to swear one out in court. The second way is that the alleged victim makes a statement to the police who then are obliged to take out the ADVO on behalf of the woman. The latter scenario works like this: Woman goes to police, makes a statement. Police contact Judge and Provisional ADVO is made via telephone. Police then show up at your home or workplace and serve you with the ADVO.

If you get an ADVO served on you there is nothing you can do to get rid of it apart from the passage of time, as the basis of an ADVO is not that you did a crime but that the alleged victim holds fears of further violence. So, you get a whole host of sanctions imposed on you without evidence, without a trial and without a right of reply. Sanctions you will receive include:
- Not to go near or contact your ex or your children
- Not to enter where you (used to) live
- Forfeiture of firearms (and the right to have a license for 10 years)

You will attend about 3 hearings regarding the ADVO before you get any right of reply. This right of reply is known as a 'show cause' hearing and this is what you want to tell your criminal lawyer that this is what you want. It is at this hearing that the Police have to justify why the ADVO should remain in place, and is usually the point at which if you have been complying with the orders that the police will back down and let the ADVO be dropped. Too bad about the 6 months of Status Quo your ex just built.

Problems with the ADVO system include:
- you are punished as though you are guilty without a trial
- it is impossible to prove that someone does not have valid fears
- they are available to women but not to men - nobody seems to care about abuse of men by women
- the tie-in to the family law act makes them an effective tool of abuse and a shield in separations

Did you know that if a woman gets an ADVO that she can get an immediate $300 crisis payment from Centrelink, and she can get four of these per year? On top of that she will get legal aid whilst the man will have to pay Child Support payments, lose his house, be seen as a monster by his peers and lose contact with his children - all whilst throwing the rest of any money he has at lawyers to try to see his Children.

The ADVO system is subsidised to the tune of 2 billion dollars a year by the presence of the so-called DV ladies. These are women, based in police stations, who deal with complaints of Domestic Violence and guide the women through the process of getting rid of their men.

Unfortunately, we men have let the feminist slowly bring in this rubbish legislation by stealth over the last 40 years. Women have too much choice and too much power - and it is tearing families apart. This could happen to You, your Father, your Son or your best mate.